issue: #38399
- move the lifetime implementation of common code out of the server
level lifetime implementation
Signed-off-by: chyezh <chyezh@outlook.com>
issue: #33285
- add two grpc resolver (by session and by streaming coord assignment
service)
- add one grpc balancer (by serverID and roundrobin)
- add lazy conn to avoid block by first service discovery
- add some utility function for streaming service
Signed-off-by: chyezh <chyezh@outlook.com>
Zhen Ye