perf: enable TCP_NODELAY on gRPC servers

This change forces TCP_NODELAY to be set, which is the default for
tonic, and is enabled by default, but is silently discarded when using
serve_with_incoming_shutdown().

ioxd_common/src/rpc.rs

@@ -130,7 +130,6 @@ macro_rules! setup_builder {
 #[macro_export]
 macro_rules! serve_builder {
     ($builder:ident) => {{
-        use $crate::reexport::tokio_stream::wrappers::TcpListenerStream;
         use $crate::rpc::RpcBuilder;
 
         let RpcBuilder {
@@ -140,7 +139,10 @@ macro_rules! serve_builder {
             ..
         } = $builder;
 
-        let stream = TcpListenerStream::new(socket);
+        let stream = $crate::reexport::tonic::transport::server::TcpIncoming::from_listener(
+            socket, true, None,
+        )
+        .expect("failed to initialise tcp socket");
         inner
             .serve_with_incoming_shutdown(stream, shutdown.cancelled())
             .await?;