* Handle incorrect or missing device name for ESPHome noise encryption
If we did not have the device name during setup we could never
get the key from the dashboard. The device will send us
its name if we try encryption which allows us to find the
right key from the dashboard.
This should help get users unstuck when they change the key
and cannot get the device back online after deleting and
trying to set it up again manually
* bump lib to get name
* tweak
* reduce number of connections
* less connections when we know we will fail
* coverage shows it works but it does not
* add more coverage
* fix test
* bump again