Fix checking if a package is installed on py3.11 (#88768)

pkg_resources is abandoned and we need to move away
from using it https://github.com/pypa/pkg_resources

In the mean time we need to keep it working. This fixes
a new exception in py3.11 when a module is not installed
which allows proper fallback to pkg_resources.Requirement.parse
when needed

```
2023-02-25 15:46:21.101 ERROR (MainThread) [aiohttp.server] Error handling request
Traceback (most recent call last):
  File "/opt/homebrew/lib/python3.11/site-packages/aiohttp/web_protocol.py", line 433, in _handle_request
    resp = await request_handler(request)
           ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/opt/homebrew/lib/python3.11/site-packages/aiohttp/web_app.py", line 504, in _handle
    resp = await handler(request)
           ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/opt/homebrew/lib/python3.11/site-packages/aiohttp/web_middlewares.py", line 117, in impl
    return await handler(request)
           ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/Users/bdraco/home-assistant/homeassistant/components/http/security_filter.py", line 60, in security_filter_middleware
    return await handler(request)
           ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/Users/bdraco/home-assistant/homeassistant/components/http/forwarded.py", line 100, in forwarded_middleware
    return await handler(request)
           ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/Users/bdraco/home-assistant/homeassistant/components/http/request_context.py", line 28, in request_context_middleware
    return await handler(request)
           ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/Users/bdraco/home-assistant/homeassistant/components/http/ban.py", line 80, in ban_middleware
    return await handler(request)
           ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/Users/bdraco/home-assistant/homeassistant/components/http/auth.py", line 235, in auth_middleware
    return await handler(request)
           ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/Users/bdraco/home-assistant/homeassistant/components/http/view.py", line 146, in handle
    result = await result
             ^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/Users/bdraco/home-assistant/homeassistant/components/config/config_entries.py", line 148, in post
    return await super().post(request)
           ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/Users/bdraco/home-assistant/homeassistant/components/http/data_validator.py", line 72, in wrapper
    result = await method(view, request, data, *args, **kwargs)
             ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/Users/bdraco/home-assistant/homeassistant/helpers/data_entry_flow.py", line 71, in post
    result = await self._flow_mgr.async_init(
             ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/Users/bdraco/home-assistant/homeassistant/config_entries.py", line 826, in async_init
    flow, result = await task
                   ^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/Users/bdraco/home-assistant/homeassistant/config_entries.py", line 844, in _async_init
    flow = await self.async_create_flow(handler, context=context, data=data)
           ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/Users/bdraco/home-assistant/homeassistant/config_entries.py", line 950, in async_create_flow
    await async_process_deps_reqs(self.hass, self._hass_config, integration)
  File "/Users/bdraco/home-assistant/homeassistant/setup.py", line 384, in async_process_deps_reqs
    await requirements.async_get_integration_with_requirements(
  File "/Users/bdraco/home-assistant/homeassistant/requirements.py", line 52, in async_get_integration_with_requirements
    return await manager.async_get_integration_with_requirements(domain)
           ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/Users/bdraco/home-assistant/homeassistant/requirements.py", line 171, in async_get_integration_with_requirements
    await self._async_process_integration(integration, done)
  File "/Users/bdraco/home-assistant/homeassistant/requirements.py", line 186, in _async_process_integration
    await self.async_process_requirements(
  File "/Users/bdraco/home-assistant/homeassistant/requirements.py", line 252, in async_process_requirements
    await self._async_process_requirements(name, missing)
  File "/Users/bdraco/home-assistant/homeassistant/requirements.py", line 284, in _async_process_requirements
    installed, failures = await self.hass.async_add_executor_job(
                          ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/opt/homebrew/Cellar/python@3.11/3.11.1/Frameworks/Python.framework/Versions/3.11/lib/python3.11/concurrent/futures/thread.py", line 58, in run
    result = self.fn(*self.args, **self.kwargs)
             ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/Users/bdraco/home-assistant/homeassistant/requirements.py", line 113, in _install_requirements_if_missing
    if pkg_util.is_installed(req) or _install_with_retry(req, kwargs):
       ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/Users/bdraco/home-assistant/homeassistant/util/package.py", line 40, in is_installed
    pkg_resources.get_distribution(package)
  File "/opt/homebrew/lib/python3.11/site-packages/pkg_resources/__init__.py", line 478, in get_distribution
    dist = get_provider(dist)
           ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/opt/homebrew/lib/python3.11/site-packages/pkg_resources/__init__.py", line 354, in get_provider
    return working_set.find(moduleOrReq) or require(str(moduleOrReq))[0]
                                            ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~^^^
IndexError: list index out of range
``

homeassistant/util/package.py

@@ -39,7 +39,7 @@ def is_installed(package: str) -> bool:
     try:
         pkg_resources.get_distribution(package)
         return True
-    except (pkg_resources.ResolutionError, pkg_resources.ExtractionError):
+    except (IndexError, pkg_resources.ResolutionError, pkg_resources.ExtractionError):
         req = pkg_resources.Requirement.parse(package)
     except ValueError:
         # This is a zip file. We no longer use this in Home Assistant,