* Adjust definition to make the default constructor `constexpr`.
This permits use in classes that want lazy initialization and their
own `constexpr` constructor, such as `mstd::mutex`.
* Add `get_no_init()` method to allow an explicit optimisation for
paths that know they won be the first call (such as
`mstd::mutex::unlock`).
* Add `destroy()` method to permit destruction of the contained object.
(`SingletonPtr`'s destructor does not call its destructor - a cheat
to omit destructors of static objects). Needed if using in a class
that needs proper destruction.
